On occasion, I’ve lamented the lack of Asian male heartthrobs in the media. There are plenty of male white, black, and Latino sex symbols, but there aren’t really any Asian men who are elevated to that status.
Is this a reflection of societal preferences? Or is it simply that Hollywood doesn’t think that women go for Asian men? I think it’s a combination of both.
Women in the USA seldom find Asian men attractive. For proof, simply visit any singles dating website where people are allowed to specify their racial preferences. White and blacks will typically be the most popular, and Latinos will have more than their share of admirers. Asian men are out of luck though, for much fewer women (less than 10%, in my observation) express any preference for them or willingness to date them. And among those who do say that they’d be willing to date Asians (or more typically, “all races”), I have to wonder… are they saying this because it’s true, or because they don’t want to be perceived as being racially discriminatory?
As for Hollywood, I have no doubt that they are giving the public what they think they want. Ditto for magazines and other print media. They’re in the business of making money, after all, and if they felt that the public would go for an Asian male heartthrob, you can be sure that they’d given Asian men a lot more attention.
When I ask people to name an Asian male sex symbol, they almost invariably give two answers: Jackie Chan or Bruce Lee. Jackie Chan, of course, is primarily a comedian and an action star. While he does have his female admirers, he’s not a popular heartthrob by any stretch of the imagination. As for Bruce Lee, he was primarily an action hero as well. His posters adorned the bedroom walls of teenage boys rather than love-smitten teenaged girls… and of course, he’s been dead for over thirty years!
You do have the likes of Jet Li and Chow Yun Fat, who some women consider to be quite handsome. They most certainly are not at the heartthrob level though, and I daresay that few Americans would even recognize them at first glance.
More’s the pity.